They don’t make them like this anymore…
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They don’t make them like this anymore…
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"Patience child, patience. Remember, life is a journey. If you got everything you wanted all at once there’d be no point to living. Enjoy the ride, and in the end you’ll see these “set backs” as giant leaps forward, only you couldn’t see the bigger picture in the moment. Remain calm, all is within reach; all you have to do is show up everyday, stay true to your path and you will surely find the treasure you seek."
- Jackson Kiddard (via outcamethesun)….. It is a good thing to remember.
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So it has been a long while since I have updated this thing and thought tonight would be perfect. Because I just finished writing a horrible paper of the establishment of political freedom and I had two glasses of wine. So here is where we are at so…. 1. Adios POF… So I finally got off of that damn POF dating website. Probably one of the most interesting periods of my life. You know how artists go through those phases in their careers like “This was from his dark period” or “This was her modernist period”? Well I had my “I don’t give a fuck, I am going to date anyone” period. I met some really fun, down-to-earth, amazing guys and I do not regret any of it. That being said, I had to delete my profile because I was starting to feel like an asshole. I just didn’t have the energy or the strength to keep talking to people. I tried but I found myself just picking out all the bad qualities in the guys who would seek me out or just not being interested. So I decided to delete. Best decision. 2. It is all fun and games…. Until you stick your finger up their butt. Literally. Gas guy and I called it quits which hasn’t stopped me from drunk texting him. It only happened three times but there is really no nice way to say, “Hey sorry I am sober now and don’t want you to talk to me. I was just drunk and being stupid and wanted your face near or on my vagina.” So he thinks I am crazy and desperate which I have come to terms with. He was a really great guy despite his shortcomings (worked all the time, blamed everything on me, liked anal porn, wanted me to put my finger in his butt), I really do hope he finds his great love who will deal with all his shit. Literally. 3. Flying Solo…. Since I ended things with Gas Guy, my love life has been pretty non-existent. I was talking to Trout for a brief moment during which he played tour guide again while he was out of town. I found it to be endearing. Then he just randomly stopped talking to me. So I am going to take that as my “He Just Isn’t That Into You” moment with him and say goodbye. I know I am crazy but I still want someone in my life who can take a second to write “Hey!” in a text message. All I did was text “Hey! How is your trip going?”, I didn’t fucking ask for an explanation of Newton’s Law of Physics. 4. If You Think My Ass Is Cute You Should See My Snatch…. I joined a Crossfit last week. I start on Tuesday. I will be in immense pain and will want to curl up in a ball and die. I am going to love every minute of it! This is my break, my release, my heaven. For forty or so minutes I get to be completely selfish and concentrate on my body and its needs. I get to focus on the way my muscles move, the exhilaration of breathing, and find the strength deep inside my soul. It will be fucking righteous. I sometimes get lost in my own head and worry too much about life, love, school, work, family and friends. I stop finding the simple, beautiful things that can be found in our day-to-day lives because I am so distraught over a stupid text, a random comment, a hard paper, etc. I don’t notice that my body and my soul are under constant stress and need a little release from time to time. Hopefully this will give me the break I need in life sometimes. A break from worry, from stress, from unnecessary bullshit. And I truly believe that this new journey I am undertaking will have only the best results. Because I am tired of being sad and lonely.
Burpees or Boyfriends…
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"It made me wonder how many times we forgive just because we don’t want to lose someone, even if they don’t deserve our forgiveness."
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Points worth considering re: the Kony debate…
rtnt:
RTNT On The Problems With KONY 2012
The deluge of social media attention that has been given to the simplistic KONY 2012 campaign and the surrounding haze of misinformation has reaffirmed our purpose at Read This, Not That. Joseph Kony is a warlord and a monster - this much cannot be denied. The present controversy swirls not around Kony himself, but rather around the substance of the campaign, and the intentions of the organization behind it: Invisible Children.
Conversations are raging across the web between supporters and detractors - conversations that suffer, in many instances, from a lack of understanding about the current state of Uganda and of Kony’s Lord’s Resistance Army (details of which are notably lacking from the film.)
There has been much resistance to criticism of the campaign, resistance founded in knee-jerk reactions meant to defend the perceived good intentions of Invisible Children. The appearance of a noble cause to mask questionable action is not anomalous in our world. As such, it is our responsibility to be skeptical, especially when engaged with propagandistic media that aims to affect us emotionally and prompt a very specific reaction: in this case, to give money to Invisible Children.
Our effort here is to offer articles that inform the debate surrounding KONY 2012 and to encourage everyone to embrace critical conversation, even when that gaze is directed at what appear to be good intentions. Things are rarely as simple as they are made out to be, and we can be sure that the state of Uganda and the LRA is not as simple as the KONY 2012 campaign makes it seem.
Michael Wilkerson, writing for Foreign Policy, asks what the video is meant to accomplish:
So the goal is to make sure that President Obama doesn’t withdraw the advisors he deployed until Kony is captured or killed. That seems noble enough, except that there has been no mention by the government of withdrawing those forces — at least any I can find. Does anyone else have any evidence about this urgent threat of cancellation? One that justifies such a massive production campaign and surely lucrative donation drive?
TMS Ruge, writing for Project Diaspora, pleads with us to respect the agency of Ugandans:
This IC campaign is a perfect example of how fund-sucking NGO’s survive…They are, in actuality, selling themselves as the issue, as the subject, as the panacea for everything that ails me as the agency-devoid African. All I have to do is show up in my broken English, look pathetic and wanting. You, my dear social media savvy click-activist, will shed a tear, exhaust Facebook’s like button, mobilize your cadre of equally ill-uninformed netizens to throw money at the problem.
To call the campaign a misrepresentation is an understatement. While it draws attention to the fact that Kony, indicted for war crimes by the International Criminal Court in 2005, is still on the loose, it’s portrayal of his alleged crimes in Northern Uganda are from a bygone era.
Musa Okwanga, writing for The Independent, discusses the complexities the video left out:
What the narrator also failed to do was mention to his son that when a bad guy like Kony is running riot for years on end, raping and slashing and seizing and shooting, then there is most likely another host of bad guys out there letting him get on with it. He probably should have told him that, too.
The LRA is reported to be 90% made up of abducted children – military defeat would mean engaging in combat and targeting of the very victims of this war; these children are the LRA.
The author of Visible Children examines the armies on the other side of the war:
Both the Ugandan army and Sudan People’s Liberation Army are riddled with accusations of rape and looting, but Invisible Children defends them, arguing that the Ugandan army is “better equipped than that of any of the other affected countries”, although Kony is no longer active in Uganda and hasn’t been since 2006 by their own admission.
People who have lived there for years, bona fide aid workers who have studied foreign policy and other relevant fields like public health, who are really there because they are trying to solve problems — they see Invisible Children as trying to promote themselves and a version of the narrative.
Eric Ritskes, writing at Wanderings, reminds us that it is not about us:
It falls into the trap, the belief that the problem is ignorance and the answer is education. When we tell more people about Kony and the LRA, something WILL happen. It’s not true…More education does not change the systems and structures of oppression, those that need Africa to be the place of suffering and war and saving…We need to learn: It’s not about us.
Patrick Wegner, writing at Justice in Conflict, offers some final thoughts:
To conclude, the Kony 2012 campaign is a reminder why we should see advocacy campaigns to interfere in conflicts with some scepticism, no matter how good the cause…. It also challenges us to think of ways how to design advocacy campaigns that mobilise many people without dumbing down the problem and its purported solution.
We put in a lot of work reading, reviewing, compiling, and excerpting these pieces for you, and hope you will consider them in this debate.
- The RTNT Team
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Me… “I am sorry, I just have a really bad temper. And I didn’t tell you to go fuck yourself.” Him…”Well I read between the lines.” Me…”Well I didn’t say that or mean to imply that. If you would have read it correctly then you would have known I still want to hang out so you can buy me alcohol and meals every so often. You will just not be getting into my panties. So I guess you will be fucking yourself because you won’t be fucking me.” … Lesson learned.
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